I can understand being frustrated and tired of this rollercoaster. Only you can say when enough is enough. Just ask yourself if you quit now will you regret not trying longer?

This game sucks. Especially for the kids and your right in wanting to protect your son. I'm still under the thinking that I need to do anything and everything I can to keep my marriage. Will I be able too? I don't know. At the moment it's out of my hands because I can't control my H. I just believe when kids are involved you should do everything you can to keep your marriage in tact. I'm not implying that you haven't. Only you know this.

Mayve you shouldn't do anything in the mood your in. Just think on it. See how you feel tomorrow or in a few days. Don't make any rash decisions.

Not sure I'm the one that should be offering advice. My H has my emotions all over the place today.


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07