Sorry I don't have a whole lot to comment on, but I will say that frank makes a good point (as usual) about the gettin in and out thing.
As far as the "babe" comment goes, that is very strange. She seems to give mixed messages a lot. I'd say keep doing what you're doing and let W initiate any R talk that revolves around working things out. IMO she still needs to come to grips with her stubbornness and be willing to give up a little pride if she wants to work things out with you or anyone in the future. She has to have a little humility, and I just don't see that in her.
I think that if you stay strong, upbeat, happy, confident, calm, cool, and collected (yep, all of 'em!), as well as continue to GAL and do your own thing, she will come around with a little humility if she truly doesn't want to lose you.