I think Mrs. Nop meant that in the context that those things from a female define Who He Is, for a Mr. Nice Guy. I'm stunned by the list Mrs. NOP provided, cuz honestly... that was my xH to a T.
Corri
Me too. Well, I tried to be manipulative and controlling but wasn't very good at it. The rest was spot-on.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.