Originally Posted By: sadhearted
Yeesh... I just today have read a handful of posts where everyone is hearing bad things from their S's. Or negative things mine included. Is there something in the water, full moon?

I'm sorry to hear that. Could it still be she's fighting with herself. She's saying this but maybe that isn't what she really wants? I hope no matter what the outcome you'll be okay with yourself and know you did everything you could.


I have no clue to what she really wants, I am tired of it. I am still going forward to take care of myself and my son. I am not going to allow her to make my life miserable. Her "games" or whatever you call it is taking a major toll on our son. Part of the reason I have been trying and doing stuff for myself is to make it work for our family, not just me. Divorce is going to suck for him, but what she is doing is making it just as bad or worse in my eyes. If it is going to end in any eventuality then start the process of healing now, don't make our son have to suffer any longer than he needs.
Sorry just in a piss poor mood with no answers, damn just like any other day. At least I can put it behind me, her loss.


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07