If a man was not seeking, sexual desire, flirtation, a smile, the touch of her skin, then what exactly WOULD he be seeking from a woman? If I was dating a woman, and she only offered friendship, I would be moving on.
I think Mrs. Nop meant that in the context that those things from a female define Who He Is, for a Mr. Nice Guy. I'm stunned by the list Mrs. NOP provided, cuz honestly... that was my xH to a T.