Cemar, I think you exist just to draw me back to posting!
You just do not seem to GET it.
Nice Guys interpret a woman's approval as the ultimate validation of their worth.
When I read this I DID NOT see anything that says that a man would not seek or desire a woman's approval. What I read in this statement is that the "Nice Guy" has no higher form of validation in his life – self validation or otherwise - other than seeking a woman's approval.
To be clear - wanting to be with a woman that loves and desires you is absolutely healthy; NEEDING a woman to want and desire you in order to feel like you are acceptable and validated is not healthy. Can you see the difference??
By the way you made a big point of saying how logical you are but curiously I find you very illogical on the boards. All I see is someone who goes round and round and rather than answer questions continuously deflects to avoid deeper discussion. Not very logical to me.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
