CE - the "wants" are what gets people into trouble. H and I both make a point of not saying "I want" something because it implies it is a necessity (which most of the time we know to be quite the opposite). Needs, on the other hand, are quite a different story.

My father-in-law used to say "it's not what people need that creates the problems in the world, it's what they WANT" - no truer words have been spoken

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)