I wish there were guarantees that I will never go through this again in my life, but as we all know there aren't. Live and learn is all any of us can do.
Live, learn, and grow through this experience. Just reading your posts I can tell that you are even through the pain. I personally have to thank everyone on this board for helping me reflect and grow through my sitch(ongoing process). It really helps to get others perspectives. Use this time to reflect on who you are, what you want for your life, and how do you want to be treated by a mate in the future(could be your H or someone else). Once you are ready to you want to make sure you understand and dealt with your insecurities from your M so it does not effect the next R. Obviously we all are going to be walking around with extra baggage from all of these sitch's, but we have been given the chance of becoming better more rounded people then we where in the past.
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OK, don't take me so literally. I meant in a year from now.
