Too bad female "people-pleasers" don't extend that to pleasing the man in their lives in the way that the man really wants
Of course male people-pleasers don't do all that well at pleasing people either. They're too busy doing what they think the other person "should" want to figure out (a) what does the other person really want and (b) what am I hoping to gain from pleasing them anyway? Is there a better way to get it?
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
