she wants all this kept quiet because she still feels guilty about it.
Actually she claims to be at peace with this decision, yet she claims to have never been so broken before.
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Why let her off the hook?
I agree, though I do not want to be vengeful. The problem that I have, like you, is that I want our M to workout. While trying to keep the road paved to reconcile as smooth as possible I come to points where I wonder if it is worth standing my ground(adding a bump in the road), or give in a little to try and keep things smooth. Early on I went with giving in all the time, now I have been standing my ground but the road appears to be getting bumpier and bumpier.
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Maybe the guilt will make her re-think things; probably not. But if she's out the door anyway, she should at least take the responsibility with her.
Her re-thinking her decision is wishful thinking at this point. I agree that she needs to own up to her share of the responsibility in our M failing and shattering like this.
