In her heart, she has to know that ending your marriage is going to hurt your girls and she has to look at herself in the mirror and realize that she is to blame for not trying to make things right with you.
She can reason this in her mind. She tells me that "she gave me her heart for 7+ years and I never meet her needs. You tried, you did all that you could, you never have been able to meet my emotional needs. I tried to let you have my heart and I no longer have it in me to love you. You missed the best part of me and I will no longer let you in or open back up to you." She rationalizes not trying now by saying that she tried for so long and I just did not get it.
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I might have missed this somewhere, but is your W still seeing OM? Her reaction makes me think that she is.
I honestly have no idea if she is or is not. I do think she is still seeing Dr. Adultery but I really do not know. I stopped snooping and she no longer flaunts it in my face. I believe one of two scenarios are playing out: the A is still going on although much more discreet, or is on hold until after both D's go through. Either way our family gets destroyed.
