Living with my WAW 3

[SuperDad]

Dave,
This is more from Deida's philosophy. In fact, it is not too far removed from the boundary setting of DB! She needs to know that there is a time-boundary, even if it is not completely fixed yet. She has time right now to pursue whatever she wants in terms of developing a career, training, etc. At some point, this time will be up and her options will be more limited!

I still am mostly in the 'Do Nothing" mode, but view this as a bit of a 180 in terms of directly addressing the issue of her complete dependence upon me while simulataineously rejecting her role as my wife, stating that she wants to pursue other men, and doing that as well.

Get out your 2x4 if you think I am full of it, but I view this as an experiment and will monitor the results from this interaction, just like any other one!

SD