I hear you about explaining that it is W divorce. I had a hard time coming across on that one to my W as well. Saying it one way sounded like I'm begging for her back, saying it the other way was like "I don't care if you start jumping of bridges."
You know, the action of trying to dismiss your filing, gave her the message, it was in her ability to decide then and still is. I think you just keep doing as your doing and enjoy the truck.
