I think a HUGE part of the problem is the fact that life doesn't slow down enough to sit down and think about much of anything, let alone why you don't necessarily care if you have sex w/ your H or not. After awhile, it's just second nature, or at least that's how it was for me. I didn't sit there and try to figure out the how's & why's of our missing sex life and if H doesn't speak up every now & again to get that thinking going, it just isn't going to happen. There's so much other cr*p going on and, for me anyway, after I haven't had it for awhile, I don't necessarily *miss* it much.
Now, I want it all the time. Maybe that's what happened to Chrome's W. She figured it out, now realizes how much she actually enjoys it and all that comes w/ it and now she just can't get enough.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10