Maybe you should go for it, as friends, and see what happens. Either make H jealous or maybe he is still the one and you just don't know it right now. Most R's start out as friendships anyway, or at least they should.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10