I'd say bad, bad idea. It would only make him really, really mad. I don't think that would help you in any way.

If you look at, I think, EMC's thread, the OM's W actually called his W and told her that he had asked for the videotape the OM's W had done by a detective. Only resulted in p*ssing EMC's W off.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10