You are all right. She has yet to file. Not sure if she's waiting for us to sell the house first. I'm hoping once she's on her own after we get out of the house she will start to rethink things.

thanks BM

Originally Posted By: 789
Is there a chance, yes there always is if you give it time, need to learn that myself. Just take your time and don't bring up the relationship again. You said she hasn't filed, so don't push any hot buttons. Just keep working on yourself and keep DB'ing the best you can. Let's hope we all can have a success story in here on day, that is why we are here.