Good ideas. Especially about needing to listen more and not always being in fix mode. thnx kultra.
Originally Posted By: mkultra
I think a 180 for control may be staying calm, really calm, I mean yoga calm, and listening. Remember, we have two ears and one mouth. Listen twice as much as you talk. Men are the problem solvers, right? You may want to approach this as a problem to solve, but she may be emotionally punishing you to get back at you. I dunno because I am not a therapist but I am a chick who punished my H far too long. I still have fantasies about punishing him and I have to resist and stay positive. You still have hope and you started your life over already.
