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H actually comes right out and asks if we can be intimate when we got home. I refrained from saying what I really wanted to say and just said no, I am not interested. I do not feel that way about him right now. He walked away looking sad and I did feel bad as I did not intentionally want to hurt his feelings.


This might have been his way of trying to see where you two stood with each other, you being at his parents house, bringing your daughter to his bike rally on your weekend, going to the theater etc...he might have been thinking that you were slowly coming back to him and so he decided to see if that was the case. Not the best way to do that, not something I would do, but he doesn't have the execellent advice from this messege board and DR like we do. Hell, my W still walks around naked in front of me and it drives me crazy, I want her in a bad way, but I'm not going to come out and ask for it because I don;t want to drive her away.


Me:38
W: 35
Married 11 years
2 daughters ages 7 and 3
D filed by her
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