So I picked up my kids at my H's apartment little bit ago. I was happy and excited to see them. He offered me something that was thrown in his bag the last time he went shopping.... Told me my S3 had been wanting to come home all weekend. We said about a couple sentences to each other and then I left. He is still no happier then when he left here but I was very upbeat today. More then just faking it since I was around him. I was actually feeling it. At that moment anyway. Don't know if he's thinking or realizing what he's trying to throw away but I'd like to think he is.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
My H IM's me to tell me he had a dream I was with a guy named Bruce and I wouldn't shut up about him... Whatever.. Apparently he's drinking and asked if this ever gets easier. Well how should I know. This is what HE wanted. Proceeds to say we shouldn't even be talking. I said says who. He says anyone that seperated. I said that's bull. He says oh we're going to be a friendly split are we?
Well I don't want a split, he's been drinking, and I really don't think this is what he wants. So I'm trying really hard to not take it to heart but ARRRGGGGG.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
Okay I know we aren't supposed to believe what they say....
My H just told me he's sorry for anything he said last night because he was drinking. When I said okay but I'm not sure why. He said well he moved out for his sanity because I wasn't there for him and now he's still leaning on me when he's already told me he wasn't going to do that. Bit of a mixed signal..
One day I get the feeling he's thinking the next it sounds like he's done and he's not coming back and is just using me because that's what he's used too. HELP!!!!
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
In my opinion, you should of not said it was okay. If he is drinking, just walk away. He is leaning on the drinking, not you or anyone else. Does he drink regularly, or just happened to be last night?
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
There is the chance if you want their to be, that is up to you. Just should not have to deal with him if he is drunk and acting stupid, I wish my wife hadn't with me, I might not be in this situation if she stopped being their for me when I was drunk.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I want there to be. I don't know that he want's there to be.
I guess I understand why he's now apologizing. I mean he doesn't want me knowing he's confused and wants to back track and say things like he isn't supposed to be bringing his problems to me. Just frustrating. So it wasn't so much that he was being stupid but he realizes what he was doing and is now saying he never should have said those things to me.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
