Sorry folks, I have been away for about a week. We were on vacation at the beach. I thought that maybe this would help save our marriage. I was wrong. Yes, I did all the wrong things that I had learned from DB. I begged and pleaded for W to give our marriage and family a second chance. I said that neither one of us should ever spend a night away from each other and our son. Of course all that fell on deaf ears. We did have some good moments during the trip. W and I were alone at the hotel one day. We were playing Yahtzee and drinking champagne. We were both having such a good time.
W kept wanting to talk about how and when to separate. I told her that I did not want to separate without a legal separation agreement. I told W that we both have to be very careful as to how proceed through the separation and divorce.
I knew that the light was gone when on 07-07-07, she took off her wedding rings. The one symbol that meant so much to what a marriage is. I took mine off that day too because I knew that maybe it was time to give up. These last three years have been over for W.
Everyone here knows the heartache that we all go through when one has to deal with something like this.
On the night of July 4th, I sat on the hotel back porch and cried. I knew then that I had to just let her go, even though I did not want to. So, right now all I have left to think about is my life with our son.
Should I quit after all this or do I keep on hopeing for her to return to our marriage and family?
