My friends said I should never be in fear of a husband. They said they had never seen me frightened before. He is not physically intimidating, just really cranky.
I think you should stop talking to your friends about your marriage. They see you unhappy, and will thus just keep advising you to leave. You instead need to talk to people who want to help you with your marriage.
If you want to talk to a real live person, I think you need to either find a long-time married couple, who truely believe in "til death do us part", or find a marriage counsellor, who is "pro-marriage". (there are a lot of so-called marriage counsellors, who act more like individual counsellors, and its all about "what makes you happy". Dont See Those Ones!!)
Last edited by Dom, Rand; 07/09/0703:42 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle