OK WAW Here is the deal from my POV. Your H wants sex, what man doesnt? In his mind, it has nothing to do with how your sitch is going, it rarely does. It connects us, no question, but maybe right now he just wants that physical release (sorry to be blunt here, not trying to pry). Yes we are idiots when it come to this. Dont shut him off becuase of this, chalk it up to being a male barely one step above a gorilla.
I go back to my list for him..."here is the deal pal, here is what you need to do..."
BTW, I am the wife in my sitch too. Nagging, etc. Thanks, I am trying to change that.
CVA
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.