Maybe, maybe not. You don't know for sure. Listen - you can do yourself a lot of favors in your sitch, which has hope if you ask me, by keeping your cool here and recognizing that your emotions are highly charged (understandably so). There is nothing you may think of to say or do that has to be said or done right away. So don't. Follow the 48-hour rule. Use the people on these boards to think things through clearly. Ok?

When is she coming? Remember, listen and use a lot of "yes," "uh huh," "ok" and "I understand." She wants to talk. You listen. You don't have to talk. If she asks you a direct question, don't hesitate to say "I'm not sure" or "I need to think about it" or "I don't know."

Good luck,
Nomopo

Remember - calm, cool, collected. You're the stable one. Show her that. Be the person you want to be.

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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