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Is there anything I can say to my wife to stop her from meeting OM 7/10/07?
IA started 4/07.

She has doubts about him but has to know if there is a chance w/him.

She wishes he was only coming for a few days not a week.
He tells her that everything is going to be great.
She says how can you say that w/out meeting first.
He is traveling half way accross US to meet her.
She is driving 3 hours to meet him.
She doesn't tell me that she wants a divorse.


I am very desperate for any advice.


Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt