Yoyo - About 3 or 4 years ago, I ran into my xbf who is hotter than hot! He was the one that I was going to marry in my twenties. He broke up with me and I think it took two years for me to get over it.. Well, the guy just kept gushing about how great I looked.. My H actually met him that day and became extremely paranoid and jealous after that even though I haven't seen or heard from the guy since.
I guess my point is that it could be good for your self-esteem to hang out with him as friends. Are you thinking that you can't trust yourself??