I am so sorry that your weekend turned out the way it did! Did you confront her were she was or drive away? I hope you drove away. Now is the time to allow for things to cool down. When you speak to her don't bring it up, don't accuse, nothing, be nice and just play things by ear! I know how hard this is, and I know what a worry you being off work can be, but you let one of the partners knows so hopefully they will cut you some slack. I was lucky that way, I had alot of time off over my sit, fortunatley my supervisor is one of my best friends, and she was the first person to know what was going on, also I have worked with this employer for almost 11 years and have a good track record, so they gave me alot of slack! I am sure you employer will do the same!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
