My W thinks that she is doing me a favor by not talking to people about how I have made her feel over the years(at least how she says she now felt during our M). To be honest I would not mind at all if she talked to everybody. I am not perfect, never have been never will be.
ERC, Hit the nail on the head. I WISH my W would tell everybody what she has done. Why are WE the ones that keep their little dirty secret?
Andyv, ERC is right. There is not what if's or if I only. We did what we did. When I had my accident I went though that. What if I left 1 min. earlier or 1 min later? Ya if I did things MAY have been different I could have been worse if may have been better BUT WE WILL NEVER KNOW. We have to play with the cards we are dealt. Both of you at least feel good that your sitch may not have come out the way you wanted (SO FAR). But you have helped me and others here. We all make mistakes, that’s OK it's repeating them that becomes a problem. Together we can learn form each other mistake that way we don't have to make them ourselves. (Saves time) .Both of you guys has been a great help to me. Remember don't ever give up. Because when you give up that is the only time you have really failed.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
