NDDT, I agree with Nom, and I do it quite alot, I will write a letter addressed to H and get out all those feelings that bubble up, never send them, it does feel better! And as far as role reversal, I understand that too, because I am feeling more and more like that myself. Remembering all the hurt, but I think I need to decide what I want more, and if him leaving is going to get rid of all that pain and hurt, or make it worse!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
