Stewart, sorry I didn't check in over the weekend, I tend not to come on here on the weekend.
They are so confused right now they don't now if they are coming or going, my H got his own phone account, at the time he was still in the A but he also did it because he thought it meant independance! Now he regrets it as its costing to much and he can't get out of the contract for awhile! They all seem to go through this type of thing, just ignore it and focus on other things. I do have alot of friends that have separate accounts who have no marriage problems, so try not to worry about it to much.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!