Not so Shocked 4

[nickyf]

ANewMe

Yes my husband has been taking D3 to the club with him, OW and her S4, i think my husband only has the one pint and then drinks coke. The problem i have is that my husband has stopped doing the fun things with D3 that he use to do. He use to take her to the park and took her swimming every weekend but now he seems to have got into the OW's lifestyle which obviously isn't very child orientated, even though she has a young son herself. I want my D3 to look back at her childhood and remeber all the exciting things she has done, i don't want that memory to be sitting in a club. My D3 needs to be in the fresh air, running around, riding her bike etc. I do want to point out though that my husband is still a good dad, he just seems to have lost focus on the important things in life.

I am suprised that my husband has got into this lifestyle because his childhood memories are of a dad who left for another woman and his mum going to the club most days getting drunk. It is almost like he is repeating his parents lifestyle. However i will not allow for D3 to be affected like my husband has been. If my husband were able to just stop and think about all of this rationally, he would realise that the life he has chosen is by no means any comparison to the life he had, he is now in debt, lives in OW's house instead of the home that we made together, Living with a woman that intentionally hurt his D3 by taking her daddy away and now bringing up OW's child instead of his own. I know that my husband thinks he is thinking perfectly rationally but in time he will regret it.

Today the weather is really nice so i am hoping to do something with D3 when she has finished Nursery. I want to go and get some new fish for the fish tank, so maybe we will do that. D3 loves going there because they have rabbits and Guinea pigs etc for her to look at .

Hope everyone is ok

Nicky