Just keep in mind that you are the better person. I just can't fathom what these OW/OM think messing w/ married people w/ families and actually thinking it's somehow ok. They'll all get theirs in the end. It won't end all sunshine & happiness for them. In the end, those of us who held our heads high and kept our morals in check will be the winners. Somehow figure out what YOU can do for YOU each day. I know it's hard, but focus on you & the boys and doing what you have to do and each day it will get easier.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10