What part of the DB or DR book did you get that from??
You have to be patient ! It wasnt that long ago she was leaving for TX and taking the Kids. The best thing is setting the boundary that you will not finance trips for her to see OM. If he wants to see her then he should send her the $$
OK now its not too bad but shes heard you so do not bring up any R talk again .
Back to looking after you and the Kids . Remember I was lucky in that W left the Kids with me and leaving was her decision entirely.
