Hopeful Happiness

[I_Still_Love_Him]

Nicola,

Of course there were happy times in your M. A M is made up of good times and bad times and when H and W are both willing to make a M work, there are more good times and less of the not so good times. Your H chooses not to remember the good times so he doesn't have to work on on the M and convinces himself that he is justified in his actions.

He believes it's easier to give up and start over with someone else. That means no R will ever work because it takes years to take a M to a deeper understanding of Love where Love is no longer an infatuation but something more than that.

I too, have been trying to remember all the good times and know that the M was not a mistake. Unfortunately, I only have a few pictures as I gave H all the pictures when he left. Sometimes I regret that.

Checked out your Disney pics. You look like you had a great time. I can see it in your smile.

Sorry I didn't call, I had a water leak and S-21 and I managed to stop the leak at least temporarily.

Hugs,
ISLH