Let the OM GO. I know how hard it is. I have my W OM phone number memorized. I can call him (or his W) anytime. But If I do I am back to square one. Why Why WHy do you talk to the OM wife. Resist. Like I said I too want to talk to him sooooo bad. But That is going to have to wait.That is my Nuke. That is going to be my parting shot if I ever get to that point. but right now ys need to build a bridge between you and the W. It is not too late. It is really never too late. As long as this is what you want. Suck it up, take a breath and keep improving.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
