she said i was controlling. i gave her a hard time about her staying out late at night shorty after our marriage. i now realize that she was grieving her dads death. she mis interpreted my caring for controlling.
my wife doesn't have all the qualities of bpd. there is none of the self mutilation or stuff like that. her whole behavior really only seems to be geared towards me.
very insecure sabotage relationships seemed to turn love off all of a sudden, devaluation empty, depressed entitlement delusional or odd thinking. def. abandoment problems.
