Nicola,

My d is doing fine today but this is always the case as long as she is with me. Thanks for asking. Did you read my post today? H thinks d needs medication to help her- what a jerk!

I don't know if my H ever really loved me either. I don't think he knows what real love is and how to maintain a long term R.
I feel the same that my H would have to make a lot of changes before I would consider our M again. I have changed and realized so many things about myself and about what it takes to have a successful R. I don't think my H is capable or would ever be willing to WORK at our M.

Hugs
K