what do you mean what role? i have a strong personality and after her dad died there was a constant control strong with her drinking. i am letting go i do have a life and i am doing well, but i miss the wife i knew before her dad died. i don't think she has the strength to go find out what is going on with her. she knows she needs counselling but i think she will take the easy way out.
by the way that website is a big help.
did you have a relationship with someone with bpd?
