tell you the truth onewish i think i am done. over 7 months a major break through and major pull back. i just don't think in the long run it is in my best interest.
It will be challenging. Do you have kids? You can do it, it is just going to take time and patience. Sounds like you don't want to try. I am sure that she received Master's level counseling, which is not sufficient enough to address borderline personality disorders. She will need to be monitored, preferrably by a psychiatrist or receiving PhD level counseling. You have to remember, that she will have to want to address these issues, which is the tough part. All you can do is work on you. A lot of people succeed by letting to, getting a life and that seems to work usually. What role did you play in the relationship?
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
