Whatever you do, don't tell her that she has these issues. Try to speak to her gently and ask for her to join you, maybe. Don't tell her that she has problems. People go nuts when they are labeled with a personality disorder, specifically. Let your counselor work with you on how to be with your W. She needs counseling especially with her father passing away. She never had counseling to deal with her abuse?
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
