If your H buys another home while you're still married, aren't you entitled to some of that property?
The mortgage/deed etc. is in OW's name. My H just gave her money for the down payment. Therefore, he is not tied to the house in anyway, so he didn't actually buy it. However, from my understanding if he tries to fight with me on the D agreement, this would be considered hiding assets, and he would have a lot of explaining to do. I look like an angel compared to him, so I just have to make sure that I keep things on the up and up and hopefully, I come out ahead.
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Keep going out, and having fun. No point in withdrawing from society. "The best revenge is a life well lived" is such a good saying for those of us that are possibly going down the D road. Not that we want revenge, but we do want to move on, and have no more pain.
I'm trying...I went out again yesterday. This was my first big outing on the local scene. I think that most people know, so I don't have a lot of explaining to do, but I am sure there are a lot of whispers behind my back, but I can assume that they are just saying..."Thats xxxx's wife. Did you hear that he left her? What the h$ll is wrong with him?" When someone who knows about this asks me how I am, I just say surviving.
It felt good to get out there, but the world out there is a scary place. I never thought that I would have to enter the dating scene again. It's good and bad. The good news is that I look younger than I am and from what I heard yesterday, I'm still hot and they think my H is crazy, so I don't think I'll have any trouble finding a guy. The bad news is that I am still probably going to have trouble finding the right one, but I am definately not worrying about that right now. It's all about having fun. After your H leaves you for someone else, it does feel good to get hit on. My niece's bf actually told me that won't have any trouble. He said you are hot and successful, you could have any guy in this place. That's definately good for my broken ego to hear.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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