~WL, You are very funny. BTW, lately all I wanna do is make myself a Bloody Mary ( vodka _tomato juice_ etc-etc) and that can be my dinner. I have been working my a** off giving too much to everyone and everybody and I feel like hey that is a good dinner. Well I am kidding of course but does sound good. HUH? I have had a few of those since he has been home. He is still drinking alot but with my new detachment and my new attitude he is at least nice and when he tries to be cruel, I do not allow it. It has been less and less that he does this. Just last nite he arrived drunk and was nice but was joking a little too strongly ,so I just gave it right back. We ended up having a pillow fight. God bless... ~Ali