It's amazing the extreme damage that a human being can cause.
And hurtful, too!
Heyya Billy....
I'm so sorry to hear about all this. I think between your amazing "Garage Macho" man......this must kill you a bit..Yes.?
Look above at the quote......and then add....make you stronger, wiser, kinder, loving, and above all.....able to accept what life is handing to you. No one said it was gonna be pretty right?
Give my neice and nephew a big hug from Aunty Jeanette...
Thinking of you.....and wishing you well.
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Sparkles!!! Those kids get the virtual hugs from the titi's every day
W was here again yesterday, I stayed out of the house choosing to finally paint my Jeep instead. I was doing the final prep on the body when my GF called, I took the call on my garage phone and sat in the sun while we chatted, I noticed W watching me from a window a couple of times during the call. When I got off the phone I went back to work on the Jeep. I think W came outside 20 times in a couple of hours, I have no idea what she was doing but she was looking at me as she did it. When she left she couldn't even look at me because I was looking back at her.
She admitted that her pregnancy still hasn't sunk in yet, that she is still in a shock over it. This is definatly having an affect on her, she is a much different person now, but for how long remains to be seen. She again wondered aloud why I am such a nice guy about this when everyone else is hating her. I told her I like to find out the why of things and she knows that I research answers. I told her I looked into the why of what happened and that I couldn't hate her for something that could happen to anyone, that got me a tiny sad smile.
The best I can hope for is that she can get through some issues before the baby is born, I just can't imagine the upbringing that poor kid is gonna have.
I am surprisingly good though, no anger, no sadness, no feelings for her at all. I guess I've detached pretty good to not feel and it's all good in my books. Life from here on will be much better for myself and the kids, we are quickly getting back to normal and living life to the fullest
We left off with STBXW announcing the arrival of a baby and some revelations as to her mental state.
Things sure went downhill this week. STBXW begged for an unsupervised "away" visit on Wednesday, I gave it to her because I thought she was peeking a little and seemed harmless enough. She returned the kids a few hours later and split before they were barely in the yard. My son was looking very strange when he approached me so I knew it was time for 20 questions. He told me she had taken them to her place and yes he was again in contact with the schizo drug addict. They then went to an apartment complex and left the kids in the car for a few minutes (this was done in 90+ degree temps).
She called yesterday to tell me she would be taking the kids out again to which I simply said no. She lost it because she knew damn well why I wouldn't let her. She spewed that all of this was my fault and that I was hurting the kids because she couldn't have her way. I responded "get a lawyer" and hung up. She began one of her famous phone call every 30 min, I answered the 3rd one. More spew so without saying anything I hung up. Then she began leaving the most abusive voice mail possible.
Fast forward to today.........
She arrived to see the kids and before I knew what was happening she was on her way out with the kids, I caught her and told her she couldn't take them today and she snapped. She had each one by the hand and dared me to "get physical" so she could nail me for assault. I kept my distance and told her I was going to the police. She left with the kids and I went to my lawyer and to the police.
The police weren't much help as the agreement wording was made when things were pretty good between us. My lawyer will be filing for a breach of a court order and I will be heavily modifying the LS or D to make it fit the current state of affairs. The kids are back home with me now and were OK but it scares the sh!t out of me what might happen next.
I wanted to post this so anyone who is in a LS or D sitch won't make the same mistake on the legal wording of the agreement.
Holy crap! The poor kids!! I bet they were terrified :(And you? Are you doing ok?? Somehow, I know your doing just fine. But the kids.....do they understand whats going on? If she doesn't stop.....they will be terrified to see her.
I'm still nominating you father of the year Billy.
Oh yea....cross those T's dot those I's
Someone told me the other day......that after you get over the reality of it all.....and years from now you look back on it, you will have wished you hung the CENSORED the day they started this.
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Sparkles, yea the kids were upset which is one of the reasons I backed off and let her go, the kids know she isn't coming back and my daughter is getting colder to STBXW, my son on the other hand is still missing her terribly but only shows it when STBXW blows off a visit.
Father of the year huh, I'll accept the nomination with a friendly amendment. The wording needs to be changed to "one of the fathers of the year" there isn't a man on this board who doesn't deserve the distinction of the title
I'm already looking back and I mean wayyyyyyyy back, and it's true I should've gone for the throat when I had a chance.
Father of the year huh, I'll accept the nomination with a friendly amendment. The wording needs to be changed to "one of the fathers of the year" there isn't a man on this board who doesn't deserve the distinction of the title
I stand totally corrected!!! You are so right. SORRY DADS!!
[/quote]I'm already looking back and I mean wayyyyyyyy back, and it's true I should've gone for the throat when I had a chance. [/quote]
I don't want to touch that. But..... crap! That thought crossed my mind too. Two years later.......whatever right? Whodda thunk?
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crap! That thought crossed my mind too. Two years later.......whatever right? Whodda thunk? 