Wife gone...Is there hope

[strange]

48-hour rule. Don't act on emotion. Back later

Nomo

Hi Nom...Yeah you are right...I guess in that time things will be different....Note to self: must take a chill pill

Just know this feeling will pass. I hear ya, you may be there mentally, but it really cant hurt to do nothing. At the end of the day, what you would have in a do nothing scenario is your life in full gear and a piece of paper that says you are still married while she wallows in her own self doubt. That actually seems ok doesnt it?

Hope that helps
CVA

Yeah mate it does, thanks..

I'm feeling a little better now, more chilled Sometimes I would just like to have my sitch move in one direction or the other. It does not stop me getting along with my life, I do what ever I wish do & enjoy it that way. But some part of me would like to have the R either begin to improve or decline & be well & truley over. If it should be the latter, then I want that to come from the W as I want her to feel & know that is her choice. If & when she ever feels like getting off her a$$ that it is.

Anyway, must think nice positive things

Thanks guys

Strange