Your situation sound sooo much like my first separation in 05. SO much. He never mentioned the D word then. Came back in 90 days for the kids I am sure, not me. Now I count the good days when we are not talking about "things". I have been getting things for the house. New curtains, toilet seat, etc. Not that I can really afford them. Figure I better do it now because once he moves I won't spend the money.

Really hot here today, 96 they said. Will have to go swimming in our pool. The kids love that. D7 is a fish. Seeing her reminds me of how summers were when you were a kid. Not a care in the world, just enjoyment of summer. Ahh, to go there again.


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08