As you can tell, we all get this way. I wrote the letter myself, knowing I would rip it up, but nonetheless it helped me get stuff out that I normally would not even put here for this crowds' eyes.
Just know this feeling will pass. I hear ya, you may be there mentally, but it really cant hurt to do nothing. At the end of the day, what you would have in a do nothing scenario is your life in full gear and a piece of paper that says you are still married while she wallows in her own self doubt. That actually seems ok doesnt it?
Hope that helps CVA
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.