Stewart10, The "I love you so much" comment does sound promising. I'm sure there are a lot of people that wouldn't mine hearing that - me included. Give her time and SPACE and remain positive and supportive. I think being a little mysterious is good. I think it gives them a little jolt that we may not put up with this forever. Just don't do it too often(like not coming home). The your just gonna pess her off. I wouldn't put much thought into the account, and wouldn't even bring it up. Stay positive, I know it's a hard thing to do. Matt
