BIL (who hasn't seen me since Christmas) says, "Where's the SD I know? Where's the bitter, bitchy woman out for revenge?" Kindly, but enough of the way I interpreted my in-laws actions for most of my marriage for it to have the ring of truth. Nice to have others see your difference....
And, even though everything went to hell with my in-laws today (among them), I left feeling happy and untouched. I totally DB'ed and detached from them. I don't have to taste their flavor of insanity if I CHOOSE not to.....
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
