Yep I couldnt imagine a better day in the circumstances. Thanks to DBing.
Journaling
Since our separation ( a whole 2 days now ) there has been a noticeable shift in W's actions towards me . I took D12 to her today , W came up and gave a hug hello , I went and got D's stuff out of the car and got her set up to stay the night. W offered coffee and I accepted but left straight after. I am off on a work trip tommorrow just for the day and said I would see D when I get back , I could swear I heard W say drive carefully but D spoke over her. W then complained her MP3 wouldnt work ( its new) I said the battery is flat and since she doesnt have a computer I offered to take it and charge it up , then there was something else she needed from home , I offered to drop it to her later , W says " dont go out of your way but if you can?" Another Hug and a peck when I left. Wow Ive had more real hugs in 2 days than 3 months . So later It was a nice day and I got my motorcycle out and went for a spin, stopping at W's on way back to give her the MP3 and other stuff she wanted. I didnt hang about , another hug and a very definite "ride carefully wont you" .She stays at the door watching me leave . Its been so long since she has said " ride or drive carefully " to me. I reckon these have got to be baby steps.
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