Thank you. You folks are truly helpful. I need to remind myself each morning why I am trying to do this. I want to represent myself as the person who gave everything to keep my family intact and save my marriage. I have no true idea why my H wants a divorce, only some clues and rumours. I have avoided any further Divorce talk and hopefully that will make a difference. I tried to stall the seperation progress if at all possible. He still has his shoes, some bills and tools here. That is some hope, maybe not a lot. Believe me, I check the closet every night to see what is missing. Is that bad? Snooping? I dunno. OK, so I have decided to avoid the lawyer talk and just peak at Nolo if necessary. I have three pit bull lawyers in my family and I do not want them to get wind of my situation. They would tear him apart.

Last edited by mkultra; 07/08/07 04:31 AM.

Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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